Juan Rivera

I attended a memorial service on April 21st for another "kid" from 55th street. It was a moving service for all who were there. There were many "kidz" in attendance, I'm sure I didn't recognize half of them. I knew Juan only as Juanita's husband but he was a well loved person and I was proud to be there to remember him.

Our hearts go out to Juanita, her children and to his sister Nilda for their loss. To them I send them this lovely poem which was read at my mother's funeral.

There Is No Death

There is no death. The life of a soul on earth lasts beyond his departure. You will always feel that life touching yours, that voice speaking to you, that spirit looking out of other eyes, talking to you in the familiar things he touched, worked with, loved as familiar friends. He lives on in your life and in the lives of all other that knew him.

Angelo Patri

For those of you far away who could not attend, following is a brief bio handed out to us at the service that I want to share with you.

In Memoriam

Juan Alberto Rivera was born on May 8, 1951 in Vega Baja, Puerto Rico and is preceded in death by his parents Apolinar Rivera-Martinez and Rosa Otero-Ortiz. The family moved to Chicago while Juan and his only sibling Nilda Rivera were still very young. In 1955, they moved to Woodlawn, a small Puerto Rican community located in the city’s south side where Juan attended St. Cyril Grammar School.

Later, the family moved to the Puerto Rican community centered around 55th and Halsted. He attended Visitation Grammar School and then Tilden Tech High School graduating in 1970. Upon graduation Juan entered the University of Illinois-Chicago Campus (then called circle Campus) graduating in 1975 with a Bachelor of Arts in Political Science, with a minor in Latin American History.

While studying at the University of Illinois-Chicago (UIC), Juan was struck by the fact that, although the university was located in the heart of the city with a population of over 250,000 Puerto Ricans, the number of Puerto Rican students as compared to the total population was disproportionate. In addition, the university did not offer courses related to the History of Puerto Rico or the experience of Puerto Ricans here in the United States. Juan began to reach out to other Puerto Rican students who were troubled by the status quo of UIC and wanted change. Along with Mexican students who also felt under represented at the university, Juan and others began a series of meetings with UIC administration. These meetings became confrontational and contributed to the formation of Juan’s political and social views.

While the demands of the students were modest, the attitude of the university was hostile and threatening. Juan was faced with a life altering decision to either go along with the status quo and get his degree or fight a major public institution and risk expulsion. Juan courageously chose the latter.

After countless meetings, demonstrations, pickets, sit-ins, rallies and even civil disobedience, UIC relented and the Latin American studies Program was founded. This program evolved into the Latin American Recruitment and Educational Services (LARES). Juan was also instrumental in demanding the university provide a physical space for Latino Students to study and host social and cultural programs. This space was named the Rafael Cintrón-Ortiz Center. All these programs continue to exist and function successfully at UIC 36 years later. They are a living testament to Juan’s commitment, work and love for his people.

Upon graduation Juan began to work in social services in the Pilsen-Little Village area of the city. Juan worked for close to 25 years as a Public Health Educator at the Cook County Jail. Juan also became active in various Puerto Rican community and political organizations. Among these, the Puerto Rican Cultural Center, Committee to Stop Grand Jury Repression, Committee to Free the five Puerto Rican Nationalist Prisoners and its successor, the National Committee to Free Puerto Rican Political Prisoners and Prisoners of War, La Colectiva Pedro Albizu Campos and El Movimiento de LiberaciónNacional-Puertorriqueño (MLN). Juan was also active in providing recreational activities for young people on the south side of Chicago.

In September of 1976, Juan married Juanita Medina and together they have three children, David, Angel Cristóbal and Alicia Yamil. His grandson Angel Apolinar and his sister Nilda also survive him.

Throughout Juan’s life he dearly loved his family and was devoted to them. He was a loving and caring husband, father, son, and friend. Juan never turned anyone down who needed help. Even as his health deteriorated, Juan found the strength to help his ailing father. Juan was never too sick to help anyone.

All our lives are better today because of Juan Rivera. All who had the honor and privilege of knowing him will miss him.

Rest in Peace Juan

Thanks, Norma

Afterthought:

Please feel free to leave comments by clicking on the comments tab at the bottom of the post. The first comment was from Nilda (Juan's sister) which I put in for her. She comments:

"Norma-Thank you so much for your blog on my brother Juan. There were so many people at his memorial that I know I missed a few. It meant alot to us to see to have so many share a celebration of his life. I will miss him. Please post this on your blog." Nilda.

Mini Reunions

Since my last posting I have had the privilege of getting together with some of the "kidz". I have been able to see Luz & Tom Cotto, Angel Agosto, Mimi Yerkovich, Luciano (Donald), (Wendy) Midna Rodriguez, Myriam Sanchez and Archie Sanchez Velasquez, Delberto (Moose) Medina, Juanita Rivera (Medina).... let's see am I missing anyone... of course my Florida family whom I've been with all my life, but those reading this may not have seen them since we lived on good 'ole 55th street. Those are of course, Jesse & Mara Veguilla Cortes, Carmen (Millie) Veguilla Manly. It is always good to get together with those you grew up with.

Let's play a 'member game (that's short for remember... 'member?) OK... 'member those dances at 'el cloob' (that's club) San Jose? Boy! I 'member that mom use to use it as a bomb over our heads. "Si no terminan todos los que haceres no van a ninguna parte hoy!" 'member? Man, you have never seen three sisters work so hard, and 'member we still had to put the curlers in our hairs, pluck the eyebrows, and shave the legs! But it was all worth while. We'd get to the dance and there we sat with our curly hair (of course in the summer that would turn to friz before the evening was out!). We would sit there at a long table with Mom and Dad lookin' on to see who was going to ask us to dance... YIKES! Check it out.





Oh man! 'member? We were all having such a blast!!!!


Mom and dad at the end of the table (sigh..) Brings back memories....



ok... Speak up if you see yourself.

Does anyone 'member the granny party we had at Donald and Blanca Rodriguez's house? I myself made about five granny gowns for myself and my friends. The guys wore these funky looking shirts to match with our dresses and we danced.... and we had a blast.

Does anyone 'member that the "Daughters of Mary"/"Hijas de Maria" wrote and produced their very own Christmas pageant and we put the whole affair on at the Visitation High School auditorium.... how did we get that? Anyone 'member that? If I 'member correctly it was pretty darn good. Can we have some reviews?... Anyone?

Ok well I'm done going down 'member lane for today. Hope all my buddies, and I know you are out there... somewhere, are doing well. Drop a comment so we can all know where you are and what you are doing... come on, don't be shy.

ciao, Norma

Thank You from The Sanchez Family

I received a note from Myriam Sanchez that she wanted me to post on the blog for her. These are her words all I have done is post it.

The Sanchez family would like to thank everyone who contributed in some way to Sara's physical, emotional and spiritual needs.

We are humbled by the exceptional love and care that you bestowed upon her especially the last few weeks of her life. The idea of using the blog to obtain help for
Sara was greatly appreciated. Norma, thank you for your contribution of updates
on the blog.

Jesse & Emilio the CD's were awesome. Thank you for all the hard work and thought you both put into this labor of love you created. The songs were all wonderful.

For those of you who visited Sara at the hospital and brought her food and flowers.... our deepest gratitude. We are incredibly grateful for your show of support and your prayers. We were able to give Sara a lovely funeral.

In conclusion, thank you all for everything... what wonderful and loyal friends you all proved to be.

God bless you all.

Love, THE SANCHEZ FAMILY

Catching Up

Hey! I know that there are a lot of us out there, but I never hear from any of you. With this post it is my hope that some of you will come out from the dark.

Here is how this works... you can all make comments on this blog! YES. Just click on on the "comment" link at the bottom of the post and you can say all you want to say!

Since I feel like I'm all alone out here I'd like to suggest that we all get to know each other again. Just click on comments for this posting and let us know who you are and what you have been doing with your life. If you want me to post a picture for you just e-mail the file to me at "rivera.norma AT gmail DOT com" (sorry for the crude e-mail description, but my son assures me it's the "quick and dirty" way of avoiding many "SPAM BOTS". He's so technical sometimes...) and I'll do my best to make you look good! (That could be a problem at our age!.. but not me, I look good!) LOL. Or even better maybe we can have some now and then pictures! The sky's the limit.

The other service I can offer is that if you have a link that you would like me to put on this blog, let me have the link and after looking at it (just to make sure there is no porn involved), I'll post it here. I already have two links posted, one for my business (I'm shameless) and one for my husband Julio... which is a blog that is quite empty right now... he isn't inspired yet.

So there it is, the stage is set and we (those of us who have been checking the blog out) would like to know where the rest of you guys are. Let us know!

ciao, Norma

Friendships

The past few weeks have been a time of awareness for me and quite a few of my very dear old friends. With the event of Sara's passing we all have become aware of something that we know but don't see the real meaning of it until we loose someone. I have always known that we should always try to keep in touch with those that we hold dear for tomorrow may come and they won't be around.

I went to Sara's wake this past Friday and met up with several old friends and as usual started talking right where we had left off.

I had a visit from two old friends that I had not seen for more than a year and we took up the same old habits that we always had. They came by because of Sara and because they were in church and hearing a sermon about not loosing touch with those you care about. This seems to be the theme for us all this past month. I hope that we all take care of old friendships and not wait to meet up at a wake to realize that we should of stayed in touch.

So everyone of you call that old friend that has been on your mind but you just have not made the time to get back with. Tomorrow may be too late.

Enjoy this poem about friends... somehow it seems appropriate.

NEW FRIENDS AND OLD FRENDS

Make new friends, but keep the old;
Those are silver, these are gold.
New-made friendships, like new wine,
Age will, mellow and refine.
Friendships that have stood the test--
Time and change--are surely best;
Brow may wrinkle, hair grow gray;
Friendship never knows decay.
For 'mid old friends, tried and true,
Once more we reach and youth renew.
But old friends, alas! may die;
New friends must their place supply;
Cherish friendships in your breast--
New is good, but old is best;
Make new friends, but keep the old;
Those are silver, these are gold

Author: Joseph Parry

ciao, Norma

Sara Sanchez 1949-2007

It is with sadness that I report that Sara has lost her battle with cancer. She passed away on February 27, 2007 at around 7:00 pm. She was surrounded with love by her mother and father and sisters at the time of her death. We would like to express our deepest condolences to her family for their loss.

Sara will be waked at:

Baran Funeral Home
2644 N. Central Ave.
Chicago, IL
773-622-1488

Friday from 2:00 pm to 9:00 pm

Services on Saturday at 10:00 am

Internment at Maryhill Cemetary immediately following services
8600 N. Milwaukee Ave.
Niles, IL 60714
847-823-0982

In Memory of Sara I'll leave you with this poem by James Whitcomb Riley.

Away

I cannot say, and I will not say
That she is dead. She is just away.

With a cheery smile, and a wave of the hand,
She has wandered into an unknown land.

And left us dreaming how very fair
It needs must be since she lingers there.

And you-O you, who the wildest yearn
For the old-time step and the glad return-

Think of Her faring on, as dear
In the love of there as the love of here;

Think of her still as the same, I say;
She is not dead-she is just away!

LOVE YA................

Yesterday I received one of those e-mails that, although it's a chain mail sort of thing, it did remind me how fragile life is. So I thought I would share it with all of you who have been "dashes" (from an earlier post) in my life. Most of those who visit this blog are looking for and wanting to reconnect with some of their "dashes" because it is so important to thank all those persons who made them what they are today.



Today with the sadness of Sara and her family this little poem has a deep meaning. I hope you all enjoy it.... and ....LOVE YA!

LOVE YA................

One morning you will never wake up .
Do all your friends know you love them?
I was thinking...
I could die today, tomorrow or next week,
and I wondered if I had any wounds needing to be healed,
friendships that needed rekindling or
three words needing to be said.
Let every one of your friends know you love them.
Even if you think they don't love you back,
you would be amazed at what
those three little words and a smile can do.
And just in case GOD calls me home
before I see you again....... I LOVE YA!!!

....Live today to the fullest

because tomorrow is not promised...........

Thanks for being A FRIEND.

Please read the "Sara Sanchez Update" post for more information about Her.


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